Do you struggle with decluttering? If so, you’re in good company. I hated decluttering. I love my stuff! But I realised that my stuff was literally costing me money after travelling around the world with my husband and son for 15 months and paying nearly $4000 in storage fees.
My husband and I decided to downsize to a smaller home after we returned. We reasoned that we’d lived well in cruise ship cabins, hotel rooms and small European apartments, so we didn’t need a whole lot of space.
Then we opened up our storage unit and our idealist hopes were deflated. We downsized to an 860 square foot duplex, previous to our trip we had lived in (and filled up) a 1300 square foot home with a separate garage and shed. To say we were overwhelmed with stuff is an understatement.
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At times it has felt like the only option was to get another storage unit but at $200/month I’d really rather not, so decluttering our home to the bare essentials was necessary.
It hasn’t been easy, but we’ve come a long way and we’re now starting to feel lighter and freer as we aren’t tied to stuff that burdens us.
Wanna know how I became a decluttering ninja? I asked myself this simple question:
Does this item propel me towards my goals?
My life goals are to be happy, healthy and well-travelled. My family and writing this blog make me happy. As does walking in nature, sun shining on my face and a good book. Other than the books, none of those things are things!! (And I have a library card, so that’s covered). What a revelation!
I could literally have nothing other than my family, my laptop, the clothes on my back, a library card and be happy.
So when I pick up a thing that I’m unsure about keeping I ask myself ‘Does this item propel me towards my goals?’
We keep a lot of stuff. Kitchen utensils that help me make healthy food or craft supplies that let me do fun things with my kids get to stay. As do useful travel accessories. Clothing that’s being used. (The baby clothing didn’t make the cut, so I’ve kept the onesie my bubba wore on his first day on this earth and everything else has been donated to needy families).
I like money (obviously) so we keep a store of hand me down clothes we’ve been gifted from family and friends. Even though they are, technically, clutter, they will save us a lot of money in the future which can be used for travelling, so we keep them.
The huge benefit of using your goals as a barometer is that it allows quick categorization of items. If I can’t quickly find a way that an item will help me meet my goals, it goes. If it’s useful and purposeful, it stays. Easy peasy.
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Do you struggle with decluttering? Does focusing on your goals help?